1、Using language,Reading and listening,Problems in making friends,What problems do you have in making friends?,Page 6,1. Have you ever been misunderstood by others? 2. What will you do if you are misunderstood by others?,Questions,Now read Lisas letter and find out what her problem is.,READING,She mak
2、es friends with a boy. But other students gossip that they have fallen in love. She doesnt want to end their friendship but she hates others gossiping.,have trouble with,have trouble with sth.同闹别扭,有病 痛,有困难eg: He has trouble with his best friend / his stomach / his English study.have trouble / diffic
3、ulty ( in ) doing sth. 在干方面有困难eg: The old lady had trouble / difficulty ( in ) finding her home.,get along with,与相处e.g: I am getting along well with my new classmates. 进展e.g: How are you getting along with your English?,advice,n. a piece of advice two pieces of adviceask for sbs advice 征求某人意见follow
4、/ take sbs advice 接受/听从某人意见v. adviseadvise sb. to do sth. 建议某人做某事advise doing sth.advise that (后接宾语从句时用虚拟语气 should+动词原形,should 可以省略）eg: The teacher advised that we ( should ) come to school earlier.,like opposite sex very much 恋爱， 相爱 They fell in love at the first sight 他们一见钟情,fall in love,LISTENING
5、,1.Listen to Miss Wangs advice and answer: Does Miss Wang advise Lisa should end her friendship with the boy or they should continue their friendship?,2.Listen to the tape fill in the missing words according to the listening text. There is nothing wrong with you and this boy _ friends and _ together
6、. _ your friendship with this boy would be a _ thing to do. Teenagers like to _, and they often see something that isnt real. My advice is to _ your classmates. That way you will _them that you are more _ than they are.,being,studying,Ending,stupid,gossip,ignore,show,grown-up,1) What does Miss Wang
7、say about their friendship?She says that _.,ANSWERS:,There is nothing wrong in Lisa making friends with a boy and that it is possible for a boy and a girl to be just good friends.,3.Listen again and answer the questions in Part 3.,2) Why does Miss Wang think it would be foolish if they end their fri
8、endship?She thinks that _.,Lisa would lose a good friend who can help her with her studies.,3) How does she explain why Lisas classmates gossip about their friendship? She says that _4) What is Miss Wangs advice? She asks Lisa to _,teenagers like to gossip and that perhaps they cant understand Lisas
9、 friendship with the boy.,ignore her gossiping classmates.,Writing: Fill in the missing sentences,Dear Lisa, There is nothing wrong with you and this boy being friends and studying together. And no matter what other students say, it is possible for a boy and a girl to be just good friends. 1._ Not o
10、nly would you lose a good friend, but you would also lose someone who is helping you with your studies.,Ending your friendship with this boy would be a stupid thing to do.,Teenagers like to gossip, and they often see something that doesnt exist. Perhaps they cant understand your friendship with this
11、 boy. 2._ You should feel sorry for those students who have never enjoyed such a friendship. My advice is to ignore your gossiping classmates. 3._Yours, Wang Fei,But thats no reason to throw it away.,That way you will show them that you are more grown up than they are.,Speaking,1.Do you agree with M
12、iss Wangs advice? Why or why not? Discuss it in small groups. 2.If you were Lisa, what would you do next after you heard Miss Wangs advice?,You may use the following expressions in your conversation,AGREEING I agree. Yes, I think so. So do I. Me too. Exactly. No problem. Sure. Certainly. Of course.
13、All right. Youre right/correct. Good idea. I think thats a good idea.,DISAGREEING I dont think so. Neither do I. Thats not right. Yes, but Im afraid not. No way. Of course not. Im sorry, but I dont agree. I disagree.,Reading and Writing,Miss Wang has received a letter from Xiaodong. He is also askin
14、g for some advice. Read the letter on the right carefully and help Miss Wang answer it.,Before you write, brainstorm with a partner about ways to change the situation. Make a list of your ideas and give your reasons.,1,Page 7,Dear Miss Wang,Im a student from Huzhou Senior High school. I have a probl
15、em. Im not very good at communicating with people. Although I try to talk to my classmates, I still find it hard to make good friends with them. So I feel quite lonely sometimes. I do want to change this situation. But I dont know how. I would be grateful if you could give me some advice.YoursXiaodo
16、ng,I thinkI believe I suggestIn my opinion,SecondlyAnd thenBesides In addition,ButHowever On the other hand,In shortIn a word ThereforeSo,Decide which are the best ideas and put them into an order. Then write down your advice and explain how it will help. Each idea can make one paragraph. The follow
17、ing example and the expressions may help you.,Swap your letter with your partner. Look at his/her work and help to improve it. Pick out any mistakes you see in spelling, verb forms, or punctuation. Swap back. Correct any mistakes and write it out.,3,2,Im sorry you are having trouble in making friend
18、s. However, the situation is easy to change if you take my advice. Here are some tips to help you: First, why not go and talk to people standing on their own? I agree that this is difficult but that person may be lonely too. If you do this I am sure you will soon have a new friend.,Dear Xiaodong,Sam
19、ple writing:,Second, you can begin the conversation by asking about their likes and dislikes. That way you will soon find people with the same interests. I think that is a good way to find new friends.,Thirdly, it would be a good idea if you try to join a discussion. You may not feel that this is right, but by doing this you are letting people know how friendly you are. So there should be no problem. It should certainly provide you with some new friends. I hope you find these ideas useful,Yours, Miss Wang,
